Hi
It’s hard but if I had the chance to go back in my relationship and went with my gut feeling, I would of said no to the relationship then, I had the chance back then as I had a choice. You are only 3 months into the relationship, if you feel you can’t cope then you will need to make a choice, otherwise if you carry on with the relationship it will be a lot of strain and heart ache and being lonely.
This is from my experience of 2 years of my relationship, only now i feel hope that even though my bf denies he’s into drugs he is talking about changing is ways and trying to be open. And he’s been blunt that he needs my help for his mental health so by that I have agreed to give him another chance.
And please look after yourself dont lose yourself and stay healthy and don’t stop speaking to your family and friends it’s easily done when you become depressed over your bf’s situation.