Your husband and my wife are the same as far as blaming others for their drug use. She finally came in the house. Scared the crap out of me. I asked her why did’t she call? She said she went to sleep and somebody stole her phone (B.S.). The kids come running downstairs asking where she was. She said over her girlfriend’s house. She told me she was waiting to get that stimulus check so she could pay the girl back. I LOST IT. Now mind you, she claimed my son on her taxes when she was not supposed to. She was only to claim my stepson, both of whom I take complete care of. She got over $8000, that was gone in 1 month. She did not buy the kids anything, I mean anything. Now she’s out here getting drugs fronted to her with intentions of using that stimulus check to pay these people back. I’m ready to hurt all of them. One phone call is all it takes. I love her but I can’t stand her at the same time. She tells the kids it’s because I have a car and I do what I want, which is not true. My schedule consists of 10 hours a day for work and nursing school. Whatever time is left is spent with the kids. I wish I had a machine that can separate the defective parts of our loved ones. Something Star Trek like.