Hi! I also wish there was a way to separate the defective parts.
My husband took the down payment we were saving for a house. $30,000. Gone. He walked out, did not pay any of our bills, did not provide money for groceries, did not do anything that any responsible adult would do. He took my brand new vehicle back and gave me a car without working air conditioning. It’s over 100 degrees outside! I just cannot believe he is the same person I married and have loved for the last 12 years. I love him so much, want to fight for this, want to fix this, want him to want to fix this but I too, hate him. He isnt doing it just to me, there are children involved. Its heartbreaking. For me not knowing who he is really with or what he is really doing is beyond difficult. I keep hoping he will realize what he is doing but each day he doesnt speak to his children, doesnt see them. Doesnt help with the bills and I was/am a stay at home mom.
I’m so sad that you and your children are also going through this. Theres so much I wish we could chat about since our situations are so similar and you have insight that I am completely clueless about. Wish there was a private message option! Just having someone going through something similar helps so much.
How was your wife when you were recovering?