You could be writing my story right now. My stepson is in the same position. Been bailed out so many times thousands of pounds probably. My partner his dad is sick with worry, we all are. Each time he gets caught out owing more money asking other people and family members for money then he turns so nasty and it’s everyone else’s fault. Says that he would be better if dead and then he gets bailed out again. Asks everyone to lie for him, don’t tell mum, don’t tell dad…
I too work with homeless services and see addiction and what it does to families. So so frustrating and terrifying. So today’s question is to pay or not to pay?? I’m thinking no but want to feel confident that’s the right response.
I’ve sent my stepson a contact in AA who would be happy to speak with him but it doesn’t look like he’s at that place yet.
He’s such a lovely guy too, everyone who knows him loves him but this situation is killing us all.
Hope your family gets some peace soon xx