Hello SongbirdGarden67, First, I want to thank you for wishing my son a happy birthday that really means a lot to us that you would take time and give him birthday wishes. But anyway, WOW! I am so sorry to hear that you are not doing so great. So, in my opinion you have 2 options at this point. One, you can walk away and let him continue down the road he is going to save you and your children. Or option two, after researching your state’s laws regarding cases like yours. You can file the Marchman Act petition. I know, what is the MARCHMAN ACT? Read below.
The Marchman Act is the nickname for a Florida Statute best known for its unique provisions that allow family members to petition the courts for mandatory assessment and treatment of someone who is abusing drugs or alcohol appear to be a danger to themselves or others.
There’s more to this you just have to do a little digging. But if you are willing to try one last thing, this is your best option in my opinion.