Hi, sorry to hear about your fiance. No one should have to go through this. I completely know what you mean about them even looking different. My mum looks and acts like a complete different woman. But because she is so nice when sober it’s hard not to forgive her when she sobers up again. I just can’t help feeling resentment towards her for how selfish she can be at times. My dad is such a hardworking, kind, caring man and doesn’t deserve it. No doubt your children feel the same about you not deserving this either. Just so sad. Take care x
