Thank you for replying to me. Finding this forum has been amazing for me to know that even when you think your alone your not.
I told my mum what I seen and said she needs to try and get him help. He also told her what I witnessed which is something I suppose. It is just so hard my dad used to be very successful and this big strong man, and now he has nothing and shuffles around like he’s 90 years old.
I just want to help in and my mum before he completely destroys our family. My brothers don’t take much to do with him because of the way he is with my mum, so I feel like I need to help my mum on my own.
I’m like you, not sure how much dad is still alive, it went from neat whiskey to neat vodka.
Sorry to hear you’re going through it too. X