Hi. I’m in the exact same situation. I’ve also got a young baby & support us financially, so know how difficult it is :(. It’s such a desperate feeling knowing you’re stuck in a vicious circle & being on maternity leave with not much money, but yet having to support your boyfriend knowing he spends X amount on drink and drugs. You literally can’t trust them in the slightest, whether it’s to not steal stuff from you or to look after your baby…and you can’t help but blame yourself for putting your poor baby in the middle of all this :(. I literally could have written your post. I haven’t really got any advice, but thought it might help to have someone to talk to?
