”he just thinks i need to move on from this. Which i agree,” – why would you agree with him? If this is still affecting you, you are clearly not ready to move on. But like a typical addict, when they are ready for something (be it recovery, being happy, making a go of it again.. ) then you must also be ready. Whether you are or not.
I bottled up my emotions and everything I felt for two years and in the end, my mental health AND my physical health suffered. I was so ill physically I had to cut him off. That’s what it did to me. So please don’t bottle things up.
”things are nothing like they were and he thinks that’s because of how i am being towards him” – in other words, again, this is down to you. Nothing to do with his appalling behaviour or the abuse of trust or how he’s let you down and destroyed the trust in your relationship. It’s down to you and your behaviour. This is a TYPICAL addict attitude.
please visit this link and at the bottom, click chat. You can speak in live time to a trained advisor. Let me know how you get on. I am here if you want to talk also.