Well said Dfh. That’s the big thing isn’t it. Knowing your own worth. I’ve got there too. I’m going to get the house out into my name only, which he agreed to and I’m on my way to my full recovery from his addiction. It is so good feeling that I don’t have to make myself look pathetic anymore. I look after myself now, and gained back my self respect. I’m not his mum he’s a big boy and has made his own foolish decisions. Why on earth we think we have to make them better being their wives is now beyond me.
Keep well.