[snuffysmith]

I used to think if I used every few weeks or so it was ok, I know its not but that’s what I told myself. My partner has been pivotal in my decision in the sense that she has been so supportive but the decision lay with me, I think it has to be that you want to do it yourself to make it work, I may be wrong as I’m only just getting clear headed myself but that’s the driver for me – I want to quit. I also know it will shorten my life span, depending how much he is consuming it could be doing real damage. Has he said he wants to quit? Has he lost his job since lockdown?