We are all here to support one another, and I am glad you’ve found some support for yourself. Talking things through and reasoning things out with others helps us all, even when we don’t want to or feel defensive.
Walking down this path with an alcoholic is definitely not one to do alone, so good for you for reaching out.
We all get angry and in more ways than one it’s designed to protect ourselves and keep us safe from harm. It’s ok to be angry, however anger does make us irrational.
Its good that he is getting support at the hospital as it sounds like he was in severe withdrawal (DT’s). Probably scared the hell out of him too. Hopefully he can get some support on discharge, even if it is online zoom meetings with AA.
Addiction has ruined my family, broke my heart over and over again, so I’d like to send hugs and understanding from one fellow to another that is going through the throws of addiction. It’s hard, it’s emotional, it’s draining, it’s frustrating, confusing and most of all soul destroying.
Focus on your recovery and keep talking. Be nice to yourself because this life wears you down, chips away at self esteem and removes all logic. X