Im completely with both of you on this. Before i found out about my partners addiction i was besotted. We had just got engaged.
Since everything, all the lies and the broken trust and the accusations and the staying in bed etc. I feel like i dont even know and feel exactly like you said cheated on.
Its the same feeling. Hes been sleeping on the sofa, im just so resentful towards him. Im not sure it can ever go back now. He thinks I should just get over it now hes clean and i cant!