This sounds just like my partner, past year or so he has obliterated our lives and that of our children. He would never get out of bed, say he was better off dead, lie and sneak around. It came to a breaking point and he sought help, but our financial situation is on the brink as to whether I can resolve it or not. He’s been to the doctors for depression and speaking with a drug counsellor, I thought he was doing well for the past two weeks, but whilst I was at work last night he messaged someone about dropping money off which I found today. I’m at a loss as to what to do, we have a house, both work, but at this rate we will lose everything. Sometimes I feel like he just doesn’t want our family life and would be happier on his own, we have been together 6 years and up until last year it was brilliant. Just don’t know if we can find happiness again, whether to continue to support him to recovery or whether I’m clinging on to something that will never happen. Such a lonely thing to go through, all his family know and I’ve spoken to them but what can they do. It’s a massive shame so many people are going through the same thing.
