Thank you for your reply.
Yes I definitely notice when he’s on it, the sweating, agitated, pupils, blowing nose.
He’s been doing it 7-8 months which makes sense to when we started as our relationship became strained etc
Since posting this he’s not touched it in-fact he’s been the guy I remember nice, helpful and loving.
I been testing him every 3 days and they all been negative.
I think by me finding out was what he wanted. He loves me I know that and agreed to online meeting, fitted a tracker etc
Maybe I caught him at the right time before the addiction took a hold.
He said he joined dating etc when we split while he was on coke I checked all the apps and the dates do tie in.
I’m no angel when we split up so I’m happy to move forward from all that nonsense cause i think when we’re depressed people do look for attention etc
It’s really good your going to the doctors as it’s not fair on you or your partner.
This drug playing with the mind and eventually will take over and until you reach rock bottom it maybe to late.
Your partner will not put up with it she will become more distant and eventually move on from you.
Get her to test you and tell her you need help.
Honestly Is the best policy.
Remember best things in life are FREE x