I’ve just had a few days at work, came home last night, he was looking after the kids and he ran straight upstairs. Found out he had used, he was due into work 2 hours later. His job is dangerous so I had to ring him in sick, bearing in mind he’s lucky to have that job as he survived redundancy not so long ago. They weren’t happy, and this morning he’s still not able to go to work so had to ring them again. I’ve had a headache all night from it, I’m so stressed. If he loses that job we lose our house, but I can’t talk to him about it properly as he’s on a comedown. He has told me to leave and go somewhere with the kids and give him a few days, but we car share and he has the kids whilst I work, so if I or he leaves I can kiss goodbye to my job. I don’t know what to do for the best, my family also don’t know so if I went there they would find out.
I’m talking with his sister currently to see how she can help, but I’m starting to feel hopeless.