Oh well in that case try not to hold to high expectations as to a response.
Maybe you do deserve to have your say and express what’s on your mind. Do you feel better for it? Now maybe, but if no response Tomorrow, next week, next month will you feel liberation? Probably not, you’d probably internalise that and blame Yourself and this is the behaviour that comes with loving an addict.
So long as you hold no expectations you’ll be fine.
As for being over things.. I think we just learn to carry pain around on our backs and the shoulders widen!
One thing I know about life is it can change every day as long as you give it a chance. Feelings change, thoughts ain’t always true and life goes on no matter how crappy it gets.