Dazzaot thank you for such a honest reply. I appreciate it.
I am staying firm that this is a one time chance for my husband. I have a small ‘army’ behind me who will make me stick to my own promise to myself and kids.
I would have stood in front of police/court/whoever and sworn that my husband was not a drug user. I found it because this year things have sprinkled out of control. He used £4000 since Dec on it. But April/May was the majority so he slipped up and I found out.
I think it will take a while to believe it’s true. In my gut. I’m in shock.
I am sorry you lost everything and especially your children, are they back in your life now?
Kel1 – I am so sorry your man no longer exists. That’s so sad and heart breaking for you. I can fully understand why you left and not worth wing with someone who isn’t them.
It won’t ever be the same, so you are better off rebuilding yourself.
I can’t even begin to think how that must have been and how you felt and still feel.