Ash2013 – thanks your words are so kind.
We sound similar.
Did you know he did it as a ‘social’ thing?
I didn’t.
I have got stronger over the last three days. I will keep getting there.
I know this is a one time gig. So I’m giving everything I’ve got to help him. Then I will honestly know I never let him down. He would have let us down (if it goes bad again)
I’ve order drug tests online and I’ll ask him to do these regularly now.
Having the children is so hard. That is exactly why we fight for our husbands. Because of our best bits or the children we made and we owe them. I owe my sons.
Having found out Friday he has done the following-
Changed his payment account from work to our joint ac, so I have his whole salary and will give him money when he needs it.
GP has been called and has organised blood tests for 7am tomorrow, ECG for lunchtime.
Self referred to NHS drug counselling/help team – awaiting a call back.
Told his sister (who I wouldn’t mess with! She is very high and mighty and went bloody ape shit)
Agreed to meet with my cousins (like brothers to me) on Thursday evening and talk. One was his best man at our wedding.
Friday go back to GP face to face appointment and I can attend.
Take drug tests whenever I ask. I’ve ordered them.
I’ve emailed his counsellor and she has replied to me. Not telling me anything just confirming that she believes he will do all he can to get help and fix this.
I’m exhausted