With what you describe cutting contact might be best. I’ve just had pretty much his done to me and it has woke me up. But I dont want to influence your decision as he seriously sounds like he needs help. Wish my wife would of given me the support you have given him. I’m only 16 days clean but I have a long way to go and I see the devastation I have left with my family. My dad had a browse on here yesterday as I recommended it to him. I certainly feel dreadful as most of the patterns of a user are the same.
I read posts and think I can relate to that and that and that.
He will not quit till hes ready and hits home once you have gone that you are serious. With me I’m too late as I’ve lost it all but now im not thinking about what I’ve lost now more about what ive got to look forward too living a clean life.
If you need anything from the eyes of a user drop me a message and goodluck
Now I’m trying to get another family member to do what I’m doing as in going clean and hes wreaking destruction in his own life aswell
If you do this you have to stick to your guns. Use support groups etc as it will be hard and he will try emotionally convince you that hes changed.