It was shock she needed to reach out for help. It’s been a very long road, she still drinks, but nothing like the litre of vodka she was drinking each day, sometimes 2 litres.
I’ve recently been in that situation, we pretty much broke up, she throw me out our home. Lucky enough the hotel I work for was happy enough to put me in one if there rooms till I sort things out. Sadly me moving out made things worse, she couldn’t pay the bills, she constantly stressed about everything, stopped eating, couldn’t walk the dog, even though I said I would help with the bills and walk the dog each day. So we agreed for like the 10th time that we would try again. Silly I know but since she’s been trying and I would hate to see her in a worse condition after all she has been through.
I’ve been accused of everything she could think off when she was in her bad states.
But I do believe in some cases it’s best to leave and stay gone.
A friend had said to me a few months back.
You only have one life. When it’s gone, it’s gone. Do you want to spend your one life worrying, being unhappy, fighting, being scared or would you rather have peace, happiness, a life.