Smithy- he really sounds bad. It’s the fact that he wants it so much that you keep finding stuff that worries me. I completely understand about his proving it to you, he should be on his knees begging you, but he obvs doesn’t want too. He just wants these drugs. His lack of empathy towards his daughter would really annoy me! I would have a massive issue with that, the kids are so important.
Does your daughter say anything to you?
You 100% need to tell your counsellor and get their help.
I’ve decided we will need marriage counselling when I get us back on track moneywise.
The sex/viagra is same as us. But I didn’t know why. Does weed effect that?
I felt so unattractive and unloved. We were having sex once every 10 months. After the last time – which was really good – I cried in his arms. He said don’t cry, what’s wrong and I was honest and said, see you in a year. He said no it won’t be, it will change. It didn’t.
That really hurt me. But now I know why, it helps me realise it wasn’t me.