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Oh he needs to set some short term goals. Sit with him and help him.put it in his notes on his phone and give him something to aim for short term. Here is mine:-

1)I want to stop and be clean. Drugs have consumed everything you had. Sort your shit and sort your fucking life. Day number = Day 17

2)I want a permanent job (target on track jobs applied for) prove every single person wrong you have it it yourself to do this!

3)I want to be settled in my own house (target on track and should be done by 25th June)

4)I want a nice car

5) learn to look after yourself. Love yourself and love other people. Dont dwell on what you have lost but what you have got to look forward too. Learn to love life again without drugs.

6)I will be a good Dad

Achievement to be on track by september

I set them on 20th may things have changed they need updating a bit lol

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