Thank you for your honesty. I too dont know what is truth and whats is lies. If he’s clean like he states there are so many things with him that dont add up. Nose always runny(claims its hayfever), sleeps all days sometimes 18hours, took money from my bag, goes out at 2am, 4am or goes for a ‘walk’ sometimes at midnight and blames it on me doing something to upset him. He answers phone just says yes or no, no actual flowing conversation, ‘friends’ come outside and pick him up in car go round the block then come back but apparently have come to tell him something. On top of this how he speaks to me is vile, hes snappy and lies about even the smallest things. And im supposed to believe hes clean, but even if he is. I still dont want this behaviour around me and my children hes turned into such a mess its sad really.