Problem is u can’t help someone that won’t help them selves I tried everything with him I mean everything! He just thinks he’s doing nothing wrong until he has a melt down then the next day that’s forgotten his apologies gone and iv imagined the whole thing – I think u will get to the point of getting past caring in a way – I do care for him but I care more for my kids and my mind set and wen he’s ready and if he asks for my help ill help him but I think he needs to hit rock bottom first which could be years away my cousins been going through it 8 years now ! It’s sad he misses so much with kids but wen I say it’s time u won’t get bk it doesn’t seem to effect him at all x
