Hi ash. You were right i found out my partner is still using. He finally admitted to me he had been clean for a month and has been using almost every day for 4/5 months now. I ignored my gut and all the signs were there.
I have told him to leave, because at xmas i laid everything on the line and he promised me. And i have tried to support him, he lied about going to his sessions. And now He has been lying again and using even more. Im so upset that its come to this, because i love him and care about him so much. But i feel while ever he is here in my home im enabling him to do this. Hes got a comfy bed to sleep 18 hours a day in. He has the money because he barely contributes. I feel sick with him not being here and worry so much that i might have made things worse for his addiction. But i have 2 children at home who have been witnessing his mood swings, and slobbing about and i cant allow it to continue.