Glad you left a comment, it has helped me leaving my story for others to read.
Closest I’ve been to leaving her was a week before putting down a deposit on a private flat.
I find if you Are planning on leaving the person it’s best to Cut all ties, I was helping her with walking the dog, going to shop, talking to her when she needed and that weaken my resolve as I hate seeing her alone, upset, struggling.
He needs to realise he’s going to push everyone away, if he continues then he’ll have serious health issues. As I said on my post my partner now requires pills for the rest of her life, waiting on a transplant list.
You can’t help someone who is unwilling to accept help.
As I said to another person on this, I was reminded that I only have one life, if you are spending more days unhappily Then happy, is that the kinda life you want.