He has admitted it all, i have never heard him so honest he told me everything. He said “im an addict been an addict for years and talking to someone wont fix this, i dont know what will” he said its worse now because hes alone and im wondering now if iv made biggest mistake ever doing this to him but he needed to realise he would have never stopped at home he was going behind my back and getting worse and worse. He admitted hes worst hes been now in 16 years. Its so sad.
How did you start helping your husband? How did you start to trust him again?
I want to help him so much because everyone else has turned their back on him and now i know why. Hes got no one apart from to turn to his drug dealing ‘mates’. But i dont know how to when i cant have him back in the family home with how he was. Ultimatums wont work, thats what he had at xmas and now we are here x