I think ur ex probably took her a lot to letting u go and accepting ud changed she probably thought u wud never get sorted and resigned to that and let go – now her guard will be up and it will take a lot to let u any where near her again – but keep proving her that u are changed – he the best dad trust me that’s the most attractive thing to a woman – u will have history and she loved u and that’s not easy forgotten best way forward is to try be her friend and show her ur sorry by keeping clean and making effort – I know if my ex did that I’d want to be around him but he won’t even try he’s moved on with someone who’s taking coke so he can continue to bury his head and that’s heartbreaking for me and the kids but wat can I do xx
