Yes that’s 100% true .. I laughed when he said he can’t handle too much truth and I bring it home to him and he needs to avoid it, Its the escaping from reality .. I said if you just faced reality and dealt with it then the problem would be solved. But how do you force someone to face reality??
It’s like one step forward 2 back as he’s told me a lot of things he’s not said before but he has said he needs to focus on himself .. more than once in the past, however I am thinking that was without a rehab stint and his weekly forced zoom meetings so at least that’s a positive. He said he cannot keep doing the same things over and over but again he knew this 2 years ago!
Well that’s what he said for all I know he could have been buying but when I asked him what it’s for he straight away said its not for drugs then said well it is but not to have now it’s debt .. He needed 200 not sure how much coke that actually gets you but I said I was only giving him the £70 I owed him. He’s asked for money in the past and I’ve always said no, if anything it’s him that helps me out but the fact I’ve given him money now is playing on my mind so just trying to forget it!!