Yes a lot of people say I am an empath, I think it’s the thought like I said if what he ‘could’ be if he sorted himself, as if I was in that position I would sort myself out.
I’ve just read his text out to my friend and she’s said that basically he’s saying .. he wants to sort him self isn’t ready for a relationship, will be jealous if I get into one .. But he may or may not want me if he ever does sort himself out.
So he’s manipulating the situation as he’s basically saying I’ll do what I want while you sit there and wait to see if I might want you or I could just change my mind .. She’s said the same as you, he wants all these things but what is he offering? Which is so true. At the moment I am waiting on a reply to a text I sent him 2 days ago, but as this is how it always is I kind of don’t get upset about it :/