Same here, I’ve been blamed, shamed and accused of being out of order by his family because I asked him to leave the home after finding out about his recent cheating! I wouldn’t mind but he told me all about his sordid night with a stranger In front of our daughter.
Brings me to tears even remembering all of that.
I do know I deserve better and at the moment taking it one day at a time.
I think all of their nastiness is a projection of how ugly they are on that stuff. I can’t even look at my ex he makes me sick!