Now into week 5! Where the hell has that time gone.
So far hubby is doing tests every 2 days and all 100% clean.
He’s started with a drug counsellor through the GP. He speaks to him once a week, but one of the weeks he was finding it hard, so he called and had an extra chat.
It’s been mega up and down. One week we were arguing so bad, I honestly thought we wouldn’t make it. His counsellor said this is normal and he was pushing me to kick him out: give him money to leave and then do his Cocaine… thankfully it didn’t come to that and we managed to get through it.
I have been offered Family support and spoke to them once a week. I’ve also taken all your advice and starting with a counsellor once a week. I have a lot floating around my head to get straight.
Social services has amounted to nothing and they don’t seem overally involved and said he can be with the children while I work. They said the drug tests has given them confidence that he will try and cooperate.
Thanks for all your advice! I honestly found it very hard to swallow, but it was so useful.
I pray as we are 6 weeks in that this carries on and we can get back on track.