Kaza and K1983,
How are you both doing? I saw one of you mentioned co-depencency, theres a really good book called Hope Street, by Amanda Andruzzi, its her story, and it will resonate.
Its almost like there is a Cocaine switch in brains that makes them act the same way.
Kaza, my husband used to say ‘i’m not good enough, I never have been’. Its the self pity coming through, I guess to an addict, a non addict will always appear to be better than them right? I used to find myself hating myself for making him feel like that. I realise now that how someone else sees us is not our problem to fix.
Keep smiling x