[whiteheather]

thank you BT1978 – that is so helpful – when you say ‘ though my observations show me there are common themes in addicts that seem to be there in everyone regardless.’ what themes do you observe? I just want to try and understand something that makes no sense to me at the moment?!

I’m trying to leave him to make his own decisions and then slip into mother mode and start asking loads of questions ‘what are you going to do about this…..’ ‘don’t forget about that…’ I know it winds him up but I don’t want to see him get even lower.

Am I best to block all that out and just leave him to it?

Really stuck as what to do for the best