Thank you for replying.
I feel like I’m stuck between a rock and a hard place. I do love him but I’m not sure I can keep doing this over and over again – especially now I know it’s impacting his health.
He’s tried really hard to sort his money out lately but his drinking is so erratic still. Saturday he was out for 12 hours then he was out last night again for 6… I hate to think of how it’s affecting his liver.
I think that we may be headed for a break. Perhaps if he stayed with his parents for a few days / weeks, it might help to clear the air?
I’m just sad because I love him and don’t want to break up deep down but this isn’t how life should be.
He does have an addiction but, whilst he sometimes admits this, he sometimes doesn’t because he’s not as bad as someone else… I feel like he makes excuses to keep drinking when if you have a liver problem, it’s recommended to abstain.