[Anonymous]

I think today is a no go. He’s clearly already been drinking when he got home so he’s in his “I don’t have a problem any more than X” mood and saying that he just wants to be able to have a drink when he wants and not be nagged.

I think I’m going to ask him to go and stay at his parents for a few days tomorrow. Even though I’m frightened and sad, I know I can’t keep living like this. It doesn’t have to be permanent but I think space will do everyone some good.

At what point did you realise you wanted to be sober?