My partner is exactly the same when he has had a drink and it is me with the issue. He talks to me in an awful way. I no longer want to enable this behaviour. When we got together we used to party all the time and both consumed far too much….me more than him. I had my first child with him at 37 and then endured years of fertility treatments so that was my focus and I stopped drinking but he was on a bottle of wine a day and binging lots. This he did openly but it is the secret drinking of recent years that have broken things between us. I always believe there is hope and that if there is love and respect things can change. I really hope you are able to get some space to think things through more clearly
