Couldn’t agree with u more kel – I did this last year kept letting him come in and out wen suited nice one minute promising the world would switch and disappear the next I dint know then he was on coke as soon as he told me I went mad and put my foot down sort it shit or stay away – he’s not seen his kids in months so obviously he chose drugs –
Daydream u need to cut ur ties if he sorts him self out then see if he comes bk in time but it will take time I’m 7 months in and nothing as yet not just me his kids aswel – really do u want a relationship based on his highs and lows not knowing where u stand ? And u never will like this . It will make u I’ll and he will take no responsibility and drop u wen u can’t take any more and move in to someone who will enable it . My advice get out now before it’s too late – if in 6 months a year he’s clean go for it then u will know his true mind set and how he really feels – he doesn’t know his own right now so there’s no way u can guess question wat he’s doing . It’s so hard upsetting and frustrating I know xx