Sounds exactly the same. One time he said he was going to London to see his Mum, so I said “that’s good” and he was like “why is it” – defiant and sensitive!
Well the longest has to be two weeks, although he would argue if it was 11 days and I said two weeks. Sometimes it’s every day, and then he goes. I hate it. I’m on day 9 at the moment, but I’ve heard that’s his said he needs to contact me ????. Assh**e.
I will get all the BS. And then he will demand to see me and all the intensity that comes along with it. If I’m quiet, he doesn’t like it and loses it a bit.
On the phone last Friday he said “let’s just get married” then spilled a load of his childhood trauma out and boom his gone again. I know I’m his safe place and someone who provides him with care and safety but damn he is unbelievably unreliable.
I told him I’m going to date this year and you would have thought I’d killed a kitten or something! Don’t like that I tell ya!
But I will and I am going to be a bit more open despite how deep I’m in it with him. No one is like him, but that’s the issue.
I reckon he’d go ballistic if I did go out and meet someone. I went Poland last year and he blamed his relapse on that!
Joker’s