It’s exhausting, and I’m not short of offers and he knows it which winds him up even more.
Oh goodness I hired a skip and was having my garden done and low and behold I got the whole “who’s doing the garden” bla bla as if I’m a damsel! I think these men have double standards!
He always tells me his deep dark issues which makes him exposed and vulnerable! I think he “let’s of steam” around me, but I also think it’s a manipulation tool to keep me feeling sad for him.
Oh his booked a holiday in September! Obvs I said a few things, then decided to tell him I’m going on a girls holiday – would you believe he went missing for two weeks came back and blamed me and demanded I don’t go. But he can go!
If he went for a month I would not answer my phone! I won’t answer when he calls next week (and he will). It’s all cat and mouse but you know what I’m not available when he feels to contact so I’m not going to bother to answer! He then rings rings and rings. He seems to sort it out when this happens.