Sorry to hear you’re going through this, but Happy you’re reaching out on here.
Cocaine is highly addictive as I’m sure you’ve learned already just by observation. Basically the drug floods the brain of dopamine (part of the brains pleasure control), causing intense highs. Where there is intense highs there will inevitably be intense lows. Users will basically chase the highs to avoid the lows! Hence the addiction forming!
People who use this drug will undoubtedly experience serious side effects and health problems as you’re aware. Using Viagra will only put them at higher risk!
As for the debts and the behaviours you describe is A typical of a cocaine user. Do you want this man back? What helped me is to come to terms with the man I once knew is now gone! Gone to that disgusting lifestyle!
Your husband is with another women who uses? Can you imagine it – sniffing together? Class – pure class that! You’re better off out of it! You deserve better than that crap! So much better. It’s vile and degrading! Let them sniff themselves to death and you focus on building yourself back up again and BE strong.
Leaving you with debt from dealers wow – new low! I’d tell them where he is! That’s terrible! How much is the debt? Do you feel safe?
They end up emotionless and selfish so they’re not firing on all cylinders! Remember their brain chemistry is all out of synch! Shame, oh they feel it alright but do they face it? NO because they’re cowards and only strong people can take a look at the disgustingness they do! Let’s face it look at their lives! They ain’t going to wanna look within themselves and see all the ugly they’ve subjected themselves too. Especially when they’ve lost what they once had!
Let them chase their tails and sit in that and you focus on you! Time for healing.
Bug hugs ❤️