Can I ask you if the drug makes u so numb that u really forget or you choose not to deal with your responsibilities or life?or is it shame ? It’s too much for me to expect him to ever call ? Is it that he was living a double life that has now been blown out of control? When sober minded he was ok but as soon as u get out to take the drugs it’s a whole other person? So now wherever / whoever around him has him so well kept with a ready supply of drugs that his mind doesn’t have time to think of the mess that he has made.
I have to thank this forum though because it really helps me to push forward knowing that this is a global thing and I’m not alone.