[plainjane]

It is really hard knowing how to ho about things, I want to put my foot down, but I am a stay at home mum with no family support near by. I am a bit at a loss on how to go about it. I feel like I need to go back to work so I can become financually independent again, but I am worried about what to do if things escalates before I hsve managed to become financially independent again. I want what is best for my children and right now I feel like I am surrended by fog and I can’t see what the best action would be.