Couldn’t agree more. Empty threats won’t get you anywhere.
You need your own limits and you need to know what they are fast. That’s so hard!
It’s so damaging and ruins lives. It takes them piece by piece. It’s just so different and I understand your hesitation.
You sound like you know what you need and where you need to be. It’s a matter of getting there. You can! You will!
You birthed babies! Women are gods…. you can do this, do this for you and your self worth.
Keep talking. It will help. It will help remind you how far you have come.
I’m 9 weeks on and was a total mess at the start. Click on my name and read when you can, you will see I had no answers. I was blinded and had it slapped into my face hard! I gave an ultimatum and my husband knew/knows I will never back down and I am a stubborn B….h