My partner is the same. He makes promises all the time to do things with our child and me and he never does. I am literally like a single mum! I don’t feel as if we are a family anymore… more like two people that live together and share a child (biologically rather than parenting together).
Thankfully our child is not old enough to realise he was meant to come with us.
He also does the isolating himself in another room to do the drugs, then gets high drinking and smoking cigarettes… time after time I’m cleaning up all the bottles, cans, wrappers and other stuff… so I’m just waiting on him with food and drinks when he’s on a come down and we might watch some TV together but mainly we spend no time together.
The amount of times he’s promised that it was the last time or this time is the last or that he would go doctors etc… it never happens. It’s all just empty promises to placate me.