Hi, I have been in the same boat for 14 years. Been with my husband for 16 years And have 3 children, eldest is 15 and notices A LOT now! He will literally finish work and just go to the pub then someone’s house anywhere and not come home until the next day – sometimes not even then! He won’t contact me and most of the time turns his phone off so if there was an emergency I couldn’t contact him!
He wants help but then starts thinking he can ‘do it himself’ then sees friends and everything goes out the window!
I’m at my wits end now I don’t know what to do 🙁
I would also like to know the if there is any hope?!