I have children, and for me it wasn’t exactly harder to end a relationship, as my childrens welfare comes first and not my own needs, desires etc! I was always petrified that he’d lose his job, or get arrested which would lead to other agencies getting involved and there’s no way I’d put my family at risk that way! Plus, what sort of hell are the children observing! Might not be so bad now, and it could get better if he)they seek help, but it could be so much worse.
It’s all about mindset not emotions/ fear etc. And if you think they care about children whilst on that crap youve got another thing coming? They don’t. They only consider themselves and their addiction whilst active.