[kate1]

Thank you for replying. No you are right nothing is really changing he works but doesnt pay his bills or debts all his money goes on drug dealers and on line gambling his rent gets paid as I arranged for it to come out the day his pay goes in. He isn’t even putting money away to get to work it has to stop now for me he is bleeding me dry slowly. I am in touch with Drugfam who give me support and of course I have now redound this forum. Can I ask have you been through this yourself if so what did you do. Did it help