Hi thank you for replying I feel so sad about the situation. He has been using coke for years I have I inadvertently enabled him helping him with debts trying to sort his money out etc. It’s not getting any better. I told him when he got paid this month put money away to get to work he said he would then two days ago he says to me well how am I getting to work. I told him if he hadn’t kept money back I would not be helping him. He is already on a warning at work. After a load of abuse I turned my phone off and am determined to leave him to it. I haven’t heard from him I don’t know if he is at work he doesn’t live with me. I feel sick to the stomach but I cannot give him more money he has bled me dry
